Sunday, November 30, 2008
As i promised, yesterday i went for a birthday celebration at Yew Tee. Its the twins 18th birthday, Zana & Qina Arshad. The bbq pit were held at BLK 656 at Chua Chu Kang. Pictures uploaded.
preparation of bbq..
food food food
ain,erni,me,shalini and yayah
picture with the bdae twins
couples.
the bestie kememeh were there too! btol tk titi?
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Birthday twins, Zana & Qina Arshad. Finally the shortest babe among us has turned 18 years already.. haha.. smoga panjang umur and murah rezeki.. love u both twinnies!&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&&& NEWS FLASH!!!
YUNUS&INTAN; will be getting married in April 2009.
AZMIE&HIDAYAH; will be enganged in June 2009.
SYAH&ERNIDAH; will be enganged in October 2010.And not to forget, another friend of us, Puvenesh will be getting married next year but im not sure on which month. Looks like everybody are settling down quite early.. Till here then!
Saturday, November 29, 2008
Nenek came yesterday evening with Dewi cuz. She will be staying here for couple of days. Siap ar! I woke up early today, brushed my teeth, had a cup of tea for myself and then helped out nenek with the cooking. I cooked sayur lodeh and ayam goreng. I was happy though that i finally know how to cook kuah lodeh now. Haha! Rest for a while and then start with the traditional massage from nenek. My whole body smelled minyak geliga.. Phew!
After that, hang some clothings outside. Time checked is only 12noon. I can't believe i finished everything before 1pm. Later at 4pm, hubby will be coming over to my crib, have a short discussion again with nenek about the mak andam thingin then off to Chua Chu Kang. Its Zana & Qina 18th birthday today. Both of were twins and some of our ITE friends were invited to her bbq pit near her housing area. The party will start at around evening, 7:30pm. Will be meeting Yayah & Azmie and Einn at Yew Tee mrt station later.
Pictures will be uploaded soon. Lunch time!
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
This week been quite hectic for me.. Went job hunting at various places. Went to Tangs, Dreamworks, Ntuc Seacare and more.. I seriously need a job so much. Preferably in Administration. I can't stand myself rotting at home and those nags from mom and granny nimore. Furthermore, i want to help out with hubby with our financial plannings for our solemnization to come. Oh yes, speaking about solemnization, we intend to make it on
11 April 2009, the day after our birthday. Since granny insisted on making it as soon as possible, we have to postponed our Balinese wedding theme helding at Woodlands CC which we had planned earlier on.
This cute family potrait was done by hubby somewhere in the internet. Although Ady Adryan is not around with us, hubby and i were always be a family to him. Thus im happy that hubby and i finally get to settled together after the lost of our son. We sacrifised alot and fight for our rights among our family so much. Thankfully, we made it. I feel like printing and laminate it, or maybe upsize it and put it in a frame to place in our new home. Ady will never be forgotten by us. Love u always son..
dearest Dewi, I was touched reading your post about me. Which i never thought u will gonna say that although we never met before. Maybe, our friendship turns lively because we got alot of incommons between us.. I hope we get to meet each other 1 day and i can't wait to see your hair right in front of me..Hahaha!! Im so loving it! And your Mango tops and makeups, gosh! So many things to share with you. Be it in relationship problems or otherwise. I guess you are what i am. Heehs! Keep very2 in touch babe and tag me anytime whenever you want. I think its better your blog remain that way without a tag board. So you don't have to stress urself up with hatetaggers nimore. Take care babe and hope our friendship will bloom!
Saturday, November 22, 2008
I think im down with fever after adek bonc chalet last night.. just a random post.. feeling tired, sick, angry, unfair and insecure..
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dad planned to engaged us first in February. Like shit! Why can't he speak up to hubby's dad himself?? Instead he wanted to talk to hubby at my crib just now. Now hubby is mad, he had no mood to talk to me.. I've waited him all day to reach home after his long working hours were furtile. I blame my dad a lot. He twisted this whole plan and made hubby in no mood. But the thing is, im the victim. Now hubby doesn't call me, im all alone in my room, with shiver body and a backache. Somtimes i reminiscence how my life would be.....
Monday, November 17, 2008
On the 15th, i went over to hubby's place for Ady's 40th day tahlil. Actual plan was hubby's parents invited my parents to join along and at the same time to discuss about our relationship. However, there were storm in a cup and the whole family was very chaotic after what my dad argued with his dad. I don't give a damn and i just continue helping our the feast. I don't wish to blog out what my dad said to hubby's dad, but what is flickering in my mind was when dad confessed that Ady is not his grandchild.
Waited for few hours but none of my family members came. I don't wish to go home so i sleepover at hubby's crib. Futhermore, the kitchen was in a mess and i helped out till late. The next day, i went home at about 7pm. I saw my parents in a few blocks away but i ran away from them. When no one was there, i went up to my house as i was very super tired. To my surprised, when my parents left, they locked up the gate using the bicycle chain. Very good. Luckily hubby was still downstairs. Then i received a msg from my mum that my dad, my 2 uncles and dad's bestfriend were going to hubby's place. We quickly rushed to his place again.
Hubby went in first as i waited for Yayah at the staircase. While waiting, i heard their conversation in the phone. When Yayah arrived, lite a stick for a while and then we went in. My dad was in total silence compared to the day before when he acted big to their family. Throughout the meeting, my second uncle was the only one who do the talking. Im lazy to elaborate so long, but the final decision was, both parties agreed on settling both of us together. Which means, we will nikah whenever we are ready. There will be no barriers from them and they can't stop us from seeing each other.
So for now, we will taking up the khusus rumahtangga first. When everything has settled then we will proceed with the nikah. I can't tell when will our nikah date be, but the latest will be in January 2009, and the earliest shall be before Christmas this year. When we left, dad apologised to hubby's father.(Wakakakaka!!!!) The rest of his relatives gave me a pat on my shoulder and advised me not to think too much as everything were fine now. They wanted us to settled as soon as possible so that nothing will happen again.
On the other hand, my grandma knew everything already. Everything from the start. After the meeting we went to nenek house back and i saw her eyes were teary and she had no voice. She was feeling unwell at that time. I thought she's gonna nag at me but i was told from my aunty that my grandma put the blame on my parents especially my dad. After the long scoldings from my grandma to my dad, grandma was the one insisted my dad to go to hubby's place to discuss about the marriage.
So everything are fine now between both parties and i hope everything will go on smoothly..
Friday, November 14, 2008
Just a random update,as im still feeling tired although its already 3pm. Actual plan for Yesterday was to go to ite simei for a career fair and then thought of travel back to NUH then to Lido meet Yayah, Azmie and Zana. So therefore hubby rent a Toyota Axios car as we wanted to travel quick and fast. But the plan went the other way round. We fetched Yayah and Azmie at B.Panjang then to ite simei. The career fair this year was not as much grand like last year. Not much booth were put up compared to last year. I only managed to apply for Wing Tai Co. which is the main human resource for retail outlets. Which was not what i really hoping for. We went there for a quick visit and then had dinner at Changi Village. After filling up our empty stomachs, Hubby showed Azmie the Red House located near Downtown. Its one of the most popular haunted houses in Singapore.
Its already evening that time and Azmie had to go to sub-court to settle his bike fines. So from Pasir Ris, went down to town. After he had settled everything, met Zana at our favourite spot which was at Lido McCafe. Had tea break and cakes while writing a letter to our dearest friend, Matno whose now in Kaki Bukit Centre. Zana wanted so much to go to Seletar Dam as she never went there before. But before we went there, we travelled to East Coast to meet up Ninin and Adnan then we raced to Seletar Dam.
Nothing much there, as usual. Just had a normal conversation with my friends when suddenly hubby mentioned to go for and adventure at Lim Chu Kang, the malay cemetary. Me and Zana gave a stunned look as both of us are in a 'dirty' week and some more its thursday night. Funny thing was, Zana prepared to play an Ayat Kursi in her phone. Hubby insisted to go as he wanted to visit our son's grave and at the same time to ensure if the batu nisan did not fall again. So raced again there, but unfortunately hubby cannot enter to Ady's grave as there were some graves were digged up in front of Ady's grave. I think that was a great adventure. Ady's death has made me to be brave enough enter the cemetary as i never went there before throughout my entire 18 years of living. Then travelled extra extra fast to nearest petrol station as i wanted to pee!
Hubby then complained he was hungry so we headed to B.Gombak to have supper. Time checked was already 12:30am. Adek bonc suddenly wanted to join supper with us so she met us there. While Adek bonc was eating, Azmie and hubby sent Zana home first as there was not enough space in the car. After supper, thought of going home but thanks to Adek bonc when she mentioned to go rounding till late. Hubby and Azmie came out with an idea to go to Handerson Waves. From B.Gombak to B.Merah! But it was a nice view from there though. Had lots of fun there as Azmie made some funny dance moves and, for the first time ever, me and hubby fell together while carrying me. Hahaha!!
Thought of call it a day, but the fuel was still not half yet. Then we headed to Eng Neo Horse Farm for another adventure. Time checked was already 3am. The road to travel into the farm was damn eerie and dark. But luckily throughout the whole adventure i don't see anything which i don't want to see..(paham2 la eh)Haiz... what a long trip! That was the last place we went so reached home at about 3:40am. Took a long bath with Adek bonc(hee!!)then off to bed. But i did not sleep till 5am as i was waiting for hubby to reach home. After sending Yayah they lepaking a while at B.Panjang.
I did not bring my digital camera yesterday so if they send me pictures taken in their phones then i will upload it. Ok! Time to eat!
Labels: Hubby was a HELL DRIVER
Wednesday, November 12, 2008
Almost forgotten, the day before i went Sentosa me and hubby went to NUH to visit Uncle Maman, one of his closest relative. It was a shocking news to Cik Dewi as Uncle Maman was on his way to work. He felt drowzy while he was in the bus. An inconsiderate bus driver stopped him somewhere and he walked drowzyly by the pathment. He suddenly fainted by the roadside with his mouth full of bubbles when 2 policemen took him to the station. And guess what, these stupid dogs thought that he was drunk although there were bubbles in around his mouth, they did not call an ambulance at all. How stupid can they be??
Skipped some parts, he was warded in NUH in an ICU ward. His condition was really bad. From what i was told, his eyesight were poor, his kidneys were spoilt, his lungs were full of excess water, and his body has low sugar plus his both legs are really weak.
When i saw him, he sempat smiled at me. I was touched that he still recognised me. Praying hard hopefully he will recover. He had help me and hubby alot in processing our son's grave and the funeral feast. Seeing many pins and tubes in his body tells me how much he suffered. Really pity his family alot as he is the only person supports his wife and his 4years kiddo.
I will be going to visit him again tomorrow morning as Cik Dewi will not be around. At the same time i will gather some information about his condition with Clare hopefully, one of my ex-collegue at glasshouse who was coincidentally working in that ward. Really hope that Uncle Maman will recover soon and living in his healthy life like before..
Monday, November 10, 2008
Azmie(yayah's bf) got 2 FOC visit cards to interesting places. He invited me and hubby to tag along with them to visit to some places. In the end we decided to go to Sentosa. So everything was in Sentosa. Believe it or not! At 9am, trained to Woodlands meet hubby, and took 963 bus-ed to Bukit Panjang meet Yayah and Azmie then headed to Harbourfront.
Cabled to Sentosa..
The moment we reached Sentosa, we can't wait to take the free rides there. At first we wanted to ride on the tiger life sky ride, but its only valid for 50% off the FOC card. So we decided to ride on the skywalker instead. The sky was abit dark like its goin to rain, but thankfully it did not.
At Skywalker..
After the 2-way ride with the skywalker, we headed to the Butterflies & Insects Museum. But i don't know why there were parrots, birds and snakes in that Butterflies Museum.
Guess what, this green snake skin"s texture is as smooth as a compact powder! Ain't scaly at all!
Next, we headed to the Fort Siloso. I don't really took many photos there cause i find that the place is a bit eerie which i don'know why. Furthermore, the entire place was huge and i felt like as if my legs were to fall off. The guys were so mischievious at that time as they love the history of Singapore World War which they walked from one place to another by themselves leaving their gils behind. But i only took certain pictures only.
Finally headed to Palawan Beach for a cold bath in sea after the long hot trip. About 2hrs later, went to catch the 4DCine Blast. It was superb and fun fun fun. Should catch that. Lastly, went to the Underwater World which was the last place we went.
Cabled back to harbourfront and had dinner. Planned to take the DHL Hot-Air Balloon but sadly it was no longer there. So we decided to take the Singapore Flyers instead. Although me and hubby had taken it before, we just tag along as they wanted us to direct them.
In the Flyer..
Finally at about 10:40pm, we bidded goodbye and we trained back home. I can't explain how lethargic i was during that point of time. Anyway, its a big thanks for Yayah and Azmie for bringing hubby and me to tag along to visit interesting places which worth about $200 per person for free. Love you guys!
